National Siblings Day – In 1882, Two Sets of Three Siblings Married in Unusual Triple Wedding in West Clare
Today, April 10th, 2024, we celebrate National Siblings Day, a cherished occasion that grows in popularity each passing year. This informal yet beloved holiday is dedicated to honouring the special bond shared between siblings. In the spirit of this celebration, let’s delve into a remarkable tale from Irish history that beautifully illustrates this bond – the story of the Roche siblings.
On January 14th, 1882, amidst the picturesque setting of the Roman Catholic church in Cross, near Carrigaholt in west Clare, an extraordinary event unfolded. Three Roche siblings exchanged vows with three Greene siblings in a triple wedding ceremony that captured the hearts and imaginations of many. Thomas and John Roche, both farmers, stood alongside their sister Hanora as they married Bridget and Johanna Greene and their brother Michael, also a farmer. Notably, both families hailed from the Loop Head peninsula, with the Greenes from Kilbaha and the Roches from Kilcloher.
Under the guidance of Fr. John Vaughan, parish priest, this unique union of families marked a significant moment in local history. Despite the age disparity, with Bridget being notably older at 40 and a widow from a previous marriage, the bonds formed on that day endured through the years.
As time unfolded, the Roche and Greene families continued their lives in the rural landscape of Kilcloher. Thomas and Bridget Roche, alongside their children, maintained their agricultural pursuits, tending to their land and livestock. The couple’s household, a modest yet bustling hub of activity, reflected their dedication to their livelihood.
While the paths of the other couples, Hanora and Michael Greene, and John and Johanna Roche, became less clear in local records, recent findings indicate that the latter couple may have ventured to Danbury, Connecticut, seeking new opportunities like many others from their homeland.
Despite the challenges of the era, the resilience of family ties prevailed. The longevity of the elder generations, including Margaret Greene and Martin and Margaret Roche, reflects the strength and endurance of familial bonds that transcended time and distance.
As we commemorate National Siblings Day, let us reflect on the enduring legacy of family unity exemplified by the Roche sisters and the Greene brothers, a testament to the unbreakable bonds of kinship.
(Source: Irish Heritage News)